19 July 2023

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Remembering former GRF Board president Thomas Barratt

Remembering former GRF Board president Thomas Barratt


OBITUARY by Ruth Osborn rutho@lwsb.com Former Mutual 15 resident Thomas E. Barratt, who served as GRF director from 1998-2013, died June 28, 2023, at the age of 85 in Duluth, Minnesota. That is where he and his wife, Mary Jean, moved in 2013 to be closer to family. During his 16 years of GRF service, he served six terms as president of the board, two terms as vice president, four terms as treasurer and one term as corporate secretary. Barratt’s community service in LW began in 1995, when he was appointed president of Mutual 15. He stayed on the Mutual board until he was elected to the GRF board in 1998. He became GRF president in June 2000 at the age of 62, taking over from Mildred Tuttle. During his tenure, the GRF Board opened a new Health Care Center in 1998, oversaw the millennium celebration in 2000, dedicated Veterans Plaza in 2004, expanded the Minifarms in 2006 and dedicated the newly expanded LW Library in 2007. He was instrumental in opening North Gate Road in 2008 and chaired LW’s 50th anniversary committee, which executed a memorable celebration, including a parade, country fair, entertainment, three Then-GRF President Thomas Barratt with librarian Sharon Arnold Rasp dedicating the LW Library ex - pansion in 2007. themed dinners and a host of other fanfare, in 2012. Mary Greytak, 101, of Mutual 6, remembers that June day in 2012. She and her late husband, Gary, had set up a booth for their Cribbage Club, and it was a busy day with a lot of moving parts for her, Gary, Tom and Mary Jean. “After it was all over, we were just exhausted,” Mary recalled, “and we went to a little restaurant and sat outside under a full moon. There was a breeze, and we had one little drink to celebrate that it was all over, and it went so well. It’s just one of so many good memories.” Barrett is perhaps best remembered here for his unflappable leadership during turbulent years when Leisure World was at a legal crossroads: Was the community a nonprofit corporation, as was its designation since the 1960s, or a common interest development subject to the transparency and accountability provisions of the Davis-Sterling Act? Davis Sterling requires that certain association records be made available to residents. For four years ending in 2008, the GRF was embroiled in a lawsuit seeking to redefine LW. The suit was filed by seven LW residents. The GRF contended that Leisure World was structured differently from most private communities, such as gated subdivisions and condominiums that are ruled by homeowners’ associations, and that the laws for these associations did not apply. Some residents disagreed, saying LW was a homeowner’s association, and financial and management records should be open. The California Fourth District Appellate Court ultimately ruled in favor of the residents in a countersuit that the Golden Rain filed against them. The decision reaffirmed a lower court ruling that the GRF is indeed a common interest development so it must follow state rules governing homeowner’s associations. The results of the closely watched case redefined how retirement communities like Leisure World are governed. The lawsuit ultimately became case law for California. It was a time of conflict, drastic change and high emotion on all sides of the issue, but through it all, Barratt persevered with a unifying influence. “Through his leadership and educational columns in the weekly paper, Tom tried hard to keep the shareholders informed about the ramifications of having GRF declared a HOA,” said Mary Milhone of Mutual 2. “I also have fond memories of his many efforts to set up the computer lab in Clubhouse 5 for shareholder use and to have computer lit classes. I was employed as an adult ed teacher for Garden Grove Unified School District at the time, and he allowed me to teach the very first class! He also taught at the lab for many years.” Barratt also served as president of the Golden Age Foundation, Leisure World’s philanthropic self-help organization. Joan Shramek remembers his service and how Barratt encouraged her to accept the GAF presidency, which she held for three “wonderful years. I could not have done it without him,” she said. “I have lost a dear friend. He and (Shramek’s husband) Frank are chatting like old times in heaven now.” Barratt was born on April 6, 1938, in Pasadena, California. He grew up in Southern California and enjoyed surfing, tennis and sailing. He met and married his wife, Mary Jean, in 1965. He earned a history degree from California State University, Los Angles. History remained a lifelong interest. He spent a lot of time helping to collect and curate Leisure World’s history as a member of the LW Historical Society, a group that thrives today under the leadership of Margaret Gillon. Barratt also graduated from the Air War College, beginning a 37-year career of military service. He enlisted in the California National Guard serving part time as second lieutenant. He became a full time California National Guardsman a few years after he and Mary Jean married, commuting to Santa Monica and then to Los Alamitos, where the couple relocated when his guard unit moved there. He eventually joined the United States Army Reserve in Los Alamitos, and from there, he was promoted to colonel and given a new assignment in Forest Park, Illinois. When this four-year assignment ended, he retired from the U.S. Army. The Barratts returned to California, choosing Seal Beach Leisure World as their home for the next 20 years. After 48 years of southern California living, Tom and Mary Jean moved to Duluth in 2013. He served for nine years as treasurer for their senior cooperative in Duluth, a port city on Lake Superior. The couple enjoyed life there, with its ever-changing seasons, the Duluth Playhouse and the Duluth Superior Symphony Orchestra. Throughout their marriage, the Barratts traveled extensively in the United States, Europe, Australia and China, and enjoyed lives as adventurous diners. “He believed in treating all humanity with kindness and fairness,” said Mary Jean. Survivors include his wife of 57 years, Mary Jean Barratt of Duluth, Minnesota; sister Sally Van Sittert of Ocean Springs, Mississippi; and many nieces, nephews and friends. A Mass of Christian Burial was held July 6 at St. Lawrence Church in Duluth. Former GRF President Thomas Barratt

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themed dinners and a host ….

themed dinners and a host ….


themed dinners and a host of other fanfare, in 2012. Mary Greytak, 101, of Mutual 6, remembers that June day in 2012. She and her late husband, Gary, had set up a booth for their Cribbage Club, and it was a busy day with a lot of moving parts for her, Gary, Tom and Mary Jean. “After it was all over, we were just exhausted,” Mary recalled, “and we went to a little restaurant and sat outside under a full moon. There was a breeze, and we had one little drink to celebrate that it was all over, and it went so well. It’s just one of so many good memories.” Barrett is perhaps best remembered here for his unflappable leadership during turbulent years when Leisure World was at a legal crossroads: Was the community a nonprofit corporation, as was its designation since the 1960s, or a common interest development subject to the transparency and accountability provisions of the Davis-Sterling Act? Davis Sterling requires that certain association records be made available to residents. For four years ending in 2008, the GRF was embroiled in a lawsuit seeking to redefine LW. The suit was filed by seven LW residents. The GRF contended that Leisure World was structured differently from most private communities, such as gated subdivisions and condominiums that are ruled by homeowners’ associations, and that the laws for these associations did not apply. Some residents disagreed, saying LW was a homeowner’s association, and financial and management records should be open. The California Fourth District Appellate Court ultimately ruled in favor of the residents in a countersuit that the Golden Rain filed against them. The decision reaffirmed a lower court ruling that the GRF is indeed a common interest development so it must follow state rules governing homeowner’s associations. The results of the closely watched case redefined how retirement communities like Leisure World are governed. The lawsuit ultimately became case law for California. It was a time of conflict, drastic change and high emotion on all sides of the issue, but through it all, Barratt persevered with a unifying influence. “Through his leadership and educational columns in the weekly paper, Tom tried hard to keep the shareholders informed about the ramifications of having GRF declared a HOA,” said Mary Milhone of Mutual 2. “I also have fond memories of his many efforts to set up the computer lab in Clubhouse 5 for shareholder use and to have computer lit classes. I was employed as an adult ed teacher for Garden Grove Unified School District at the time, and he allowed me to teach the very first class! He also taught at the lab for many years.” Barratt also served as president of the Golden Age Foundation, Leisure World’s philanthropic self-help organization. Joan Shramek remembers his service and how Barratt encouraged her to accept the GAF presidency, which she held for three “wonderful years. I could not have done it without him,” she said. “I have lost a dear friend. He and (Shramek’s husband) Frank are chatting like old times in heaven now.” Barratt was born on April 6, 1938, in Pasadena, California. He grew up in Southern California and enjoyed surfing, tennis and sailing. He met and married his wife, Mary Jean, in 1965. He earned a history degree from California State University, Los Angles. History remained a lifelong interest. He spent a lot of time helping to collect and curate Leisure World’s history as a member of the LW Historical Society, a group that thrives today under the leadership of Margaret Gillon. Barratt also graduated from the Air War College, beginning a 37-year career of military service. He enlisted in the California National Guard serving part time as second lieutenant. He became a full time California National Guardsman a few years after he and Mary Jean married, commuting to Santa Monica and then to Los Alamitos, where the couple relocated when his guard unit moved there. He eventually joined the United States Army Reserve in Los Alamitos, and from there, he was promoted to colonel and given a new assignment in Forest Park, Illinois. When this four-year assignment ended, he retired from the U.S. Army. The Barratts returned to California, choosing Seal Beach Leisure World as their home for the next 20 years. After 48 years of southern California living, Tom and Mary Jean moved to Duluth in 2013. He served for nine years as treasurer for their senior cooperative in Duluth, a port city on Lake Superior. The couple enjoyed life there, with its ever-changing seasons, the Duluth Playhouse and the Duluth Superior Symphony Orchestra. Throughout their marriage, the Barratts traveled extensively in the United States, Europe, Australia and China, and enjoyed lives as adventurous diners. “He believed in treating all humanity with kindness and fairness,” said Mary Jean. Survivors include his wife of 57 years, Mary Jean Barratt of Duluth, Minnesota; sister Sally Van Sittert of Ocean Springs, Mississippi; and many nieces, nephews and friends. A Mass of Christian Burial was held July 6 at St. Lawrence Church in Duluth. Former GRF President Thomas Barratt

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12 July 2023

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Richard James O’Brien 
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Richard James O’Brien ….


Richard James O’Brien 1924-2023 After living an extraordinary l i fe, Richard “Dick” O’Brien passed peacefully on June 19, 2023, at the age of 98. His children surrounded him with love in his final days. His home was filled with many reminders of his happy life, including pictures of family, relatives and friends. Dick’s military service was one of the highlights of his life. He spent much of his time sharing his WWII experiences with others. He shared the stories of WWII with high school students at Orange Lutheran and Corona Del Mar High Schools. His popular presentations were illustrated with slides and, of course, Dick proudly wearing his WWII Army uniform. Dick and his wife, Pat, moved to Leisure World, Seal Beach, in 2012. They were blessed with wonderful neighbors and friends who were so kind to them. Dick enjoyed the Veterans Day celebrations and later the biweekly dances with the 40’s band The Velvetones. He enjoyed excellent health until recently. During his last days, Dick had loving family and caregivers who sat with him, sharing stories about his amazing life. His eight children and five grandchildren are grateful for the love and support Dick received at this time. He was also “Great Papa” to Quinn, Zoe and Jack O’Brien. Many thanks to everyone who loved our Dad so much. Family funeral services were held on July 1 at Holy Family Catholic Church. A celebration of life memorial for family and friends will be held in a few months. See more stories and photos on the Luyben Mortuary website: https://www.luybendilday.com/ obituary/richard-obrien.

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05 July 2023

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Glenna Faye Hoff  1932 ….

Glenna Faye Hoff 1932 ….


Glenna Faye Hoff 1932 - 2023 Loving and devoted wife, mother, grandmother and friend, Glenna Hoff of Mutual 6 passed away peacefully on April 11, 2023. Glenna was born in Omaha, Nebraska, on Aug. 1, 1932, to Josephine Slama. She was the eldest of four children, including one half-sister, Sharon, and two half-brothers, Dennis and Robert “Bobby”. After graduating high school in Nebraska, she moved to Sierra Madre, California, where she was selected as “Miss Industry.” In this role, she promoted local businesses and presided over grand openings of new companies. She fell in love with Leroy Hoff and they married in 1960 and settled in Westchester, California. Their son Brian was born in 1963 and their daughter LeAnna was born three years later. When her children were young, she enjoyed being a mother and homemaker and was involved in many community activities. Once her children were older, she was employed at Loyola Marymount University in Westchester, California, and then for a classified defense unit at Hughes Aircraft Company in El Segundo, California. Leroy and Glenna retired to Prescott, Arizona. In Prescott she volunteered at Sharlot Hall, the local historical society, where she dressed in period correct costume and served as a docent. She was also active in many church projects. In 2009, they moved to Leisure World in Seal Beach, California, to be closer to their children and grandchildren. Glenna was a member of various Leisure World clubs including the Leisure World Leggers, competing in many 5K runs/walks, the Garden Club, the Rolling Thunder Golf Cart Club, the Traveling Tigers, and the Y’s Men International. Glenna’s husband passed away in 2017. She is survived by her son Brian Hoff of Playa del Rey, California; her daughter LeAnna Rivera of Long Beach, California; her sister Sharon of Wichita, Kansas; her brother Dennis of Omaha, Nebraska; her grandson Hunter Hoff; her granddaughter Marlena Rivera, and many nieces and nephews. A Celebration of Life service will be held on July 8 at 11 a.m. at Grace Community Church located at 138 Eighth Street Seal Beach, California, with a luncheon to follow.

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28 June 2023

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Kyoko Weaver Ogita   ….

Kyoko Weaver Ogita ….


Kyoko Weaver Ogita 1942-2023 From her husband, Richard: We held hands in a tender moment at her bedside. She knew her passing was near. As she’d always done, she remembered, even through all the pain, one very important last detail: “Please write a nice announcement for me?” Her words so childlike, I forced back tears. “Of course. Remember, your notes are on my audio recorder.” She relaxed and gently squeezed my hand. Kyoko’s roughly three-year warfare with cancer finally ceased in the hours before dawn on Wednesday, June 7, 2023. In those dark years I witnessed her unyielding courage in not giving ground to intense attacks from that debilitating disease, physical decline and final tsunami of pain overwhelming her hospice medications and her courage to live. She had the heart of a lion, yet a tender, enduring and strengthening love for her family and friends. To her family and LW friends, Kyoko said, “My heart speaks to you in grateful thanks for your love and sweet gifts to me in my last months. Knowing each of you made my life rich and a joy. Your tender support lifted my hopes in those longest days and nights. We share wonderful memories. I remember you with much love.” Her story: Panic gripped the Japanese civilian settlement. The Imperial Army was retreating from the Manchuria. Families had one hour before the last evacuation train departed. To be left behind meant imprisonment or capture. Kyoko’s mother furiously bundled clothing and food together, gathered her four children and fled to the train. Arriving at the port city hours later, it was learned all Japanese soldiers and male civilians, including Kyoko’s father, had already been evacuated by ships. The thousands of women and children would be evacuated in a second convoy. But those ships never returned. Kyoko and her family became immediate refugees. Born in Manchuria to father Mikio Ogita and mother Kazue Ishiwata Ogita, Kyoko was the youngest of four children. As refugees they faced a harrowing struggle to survive while other refugees perished. Finally, one year later, U.S. and Allied Forces sent ships to evacuate the stranded civilians back to Japan. In Yokohama, life was hard. Too young for elementary school, Kyoko often spent hours alone standing outside the classroom watching her sisters learn their lessons. Kazue divorced Mikio, then raised four children, helped at times by their grandparents. Kazue’s employer forbade childcare at work but a neighbor took Kyoko in after school. She taught Kyoko the skills of knitting, sewing and crocheting skills, which Kyoko improved throughout her life. In high school, to save money, She tailored dresses and clothing for her mother and herself. After graduation, Kyoko attended a business school at night while working full time as a clerk at a shoe manufacturer. She earned a certificate as a Telex Operator. This combination of office and technology skills assured her of higher salaries. She also studied professional Japanese flower design and earned a license. Her designs often evoked praise and professional recognition. She saved money and arrived in Los Angeles in the late 1970s. She worked three jobs as a telex operator, night shifts as a yarn factory employee and sewing apparel on weekends and lived in the YWCA. Her income increased, she found an apartment and bought a used car. A prestigious commodities trading firm hired her as a telex specialist. She left her other two jobs to attend evening adult vocational classes. She earned certificates in English proficiency and office computers. Kyoko and her husband, Richard, met at a mutual friends party and dated a few months. One day her neighbor called Richard at work, letting him know that Kyoko was in an emergency room for surgery. She had no family there, so Richard left work and arrived at the hospital to find her asleep and looking weak. He sat at her bedside until she awoke hours later. Surprised but pleased, both of them sensed they had something special. The couple dated seriously after that, married along their life journey, over 41 years together. Kyoko rose to become and assistant manager for purchasing at a Japanese aerospace company. Forced to retire after 20 years to care for her aging mother, she travelled back and forth to Japan. When, in mid-life, her husband Richard became totally blind, Kyoko assumed much of his care. Kyoko’s strengthening love and support motivated Richard to seek training and finally successful employment. The couple moved to Leisure World in 2005. Kyoko was especially found of and a member of the Hula Club, where she also served as treasurer. She loved gardening, had a magical green thumb with plants and flowers (hydrangeas were her favorite) which prompted her to join the Garden Club. She enjoyed many Recreation Department excursions, especially baseball games to watch Shohei Ohtani, her favorite player. Her joys included traveling to Hawaii, the Grand Canyon, and the Grand Tetons in Yellowstone. Her love of history found her traveling to many ancient Japanese historic sites, temples and even to a monastery in the mountains. There, she discovered ancient writings which traced the Ogita family origins. She loved dogs and would make instant friends with almost any dog on her walks around LW. Her tenderness and advocacy for people with handicaps was daily practiced. She often stepped away from her hula dancers role to chat with patients watching the performance in different care facilities. She would reassure them, and even danced with them to help encourage them to be hopeful and show them love. She loved sharing special foods and chats with her Japanese girlfriends and their laughter often filled her home with joy. Christmas season gave her great pleasure in decorating trees, her home, and even her husband. Singing her favorite carol, “Silent Night” would brighten her face as if it was illuminated from deep inside. Although not dedicated to a specific religion, she respected others and held a deep faith that there was a God, whom she might understand in her life journey. Richard and her care giver were at Kyoko’s bedside as she gently eased in her sleep to eternity. “I remember each of you with much love,” Kyoko said. She is survived by her husband, Richard; cousins Yushi Ishiwata and Yoshiko Koda; and her nieces and nephews Mitsi, John Jr. III and Derek Byrum. —Paid Obituary

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Richard “Red” Ryals 
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Richard “Red” Ryals ….


Richard “Red” Ryals 1934-2023 Richard “Red” Ryals went to be with our Father in heaven on June 10, 2023, at the age of 88, in Seal Beach, California. He was a great man who always celebrated life, even in his most difficult times. And Richard was a man who would desire for us to celebrate his life rather than mourn his death. Richard was a veteran, a man of God, and a warrior. He was born on Oct. 12, 1934, in Long Beach, California. Richard served in the army as a proud soldier from 1957-1959. Richard was an active man of God who regularly served in the church and he was a beacon of light and joy to all of those around him. His love for others was evident in all he did and said. Richard will be greatly missed, but he will continue to live on in our hearts and minds. Richard leaves behind five beautiful children: Jay Scovill, Linda McClelland, Carolyn Trevino, Michael Ryals, and Lisa Ryals Page, along with many loving grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Those who want to celebrate Richard’s life, join family and friends on July 7 at 11 a.m. in Clubhouse 4 in Leisure World, Seal Beach, CA.

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