20 May 2026

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Fay Cummings, first female   GRF treasurer,  has died at 96

Fay Cummings, first female GRF treasurer, has died at 96


OBITUARY Fay Cummings, first female GRF treasurer, has died at 96 by Ruth Osborn Communications Director Fay T. Cummings, 96, who was the first female treasurer on the Golden Rain Foundation Board of Directors in her 13 years of service, passed away peacefully on March 15 in a home near her son in Simi Valley. She lived in Mutual 9 for 32 years, until June 2025 when her son moved her to be closer to him. She was known in Leisure World as a trail blazer and a dedicated booster of all things Leisure World. She is probably best remembered for serving eight terms as GRF treasurer. She was an independent thinker and had a robust sense of humor. Her son Jerry Stinner remembers her as a force of nature. Cummings was born on April 3, 1929. She majored in accounting and finance at The University of Oklahoma. In 1972, she began working as an accountant and tax specialist in Manhattan Beach. She established a successful tax practice Fay T. Cummings there and prepared tax returns for more than 1,100 clients over 55 years. She moved into Mutual 9 in 1993 and joined the GRF Board in October 1996 in a midterm appointment. In addition to serving as treasurer, she chaired the Finance Committee for nine years—from 1997-2000, 20012004 and 2005-2008. She was a member of the GRF Executive Committee every year she was on the board. Her other appointments included GRF secretary, and chair of the Security, Bus and Transportation, Recreation, and Information Technology Services committees. She was a member of the Publications, Library, Recreation, Physical Property, Resales and Medical committees. She served at a time when the board had 11 committees rather than the five it has today. She was extremely proud of the work the GRF Board accomplished during her long tenure. “We did a lot of good,” she said in a past interview. She was instrumental in bringing several important amenities to Leisure World. For example, she and former GRF President Paul Snow worked to arrange the purchase of the Leisure World Library from a bankrupt Orange County. In June 1995, GRF purchased the 4,000-square-foot branch library from Orange County for $225,000. Cummings’ negotiation skills helped to save the facility from impending closure by the county, allowing the library to become the privately operated, resident-focused resource it is today. She also worked religiously for 10 years to get North Gate built to provide residents with more access into the community. In January 2008, the North Gate officially opened on Beverly Manor Drive (now called North Gate Road). As GRF treasurer, Cummings recommended establishing the 401K program for employees, replacing the previous pre-tax retirement plan, and recommended and obtained a 4% pay raise across the board for employees. She also had fun as a board member. She was part of the planning committee for the community’s 50th anniversary celebration in 2012. She famously used a bullhorn to call the cake walk, judged the baked goods, and walked in the parade, among many other tasks in the daylong fest. She was preceded in death by her daughter, Marie Stinner. She is survived by sons Jerry Stinner, Charley Birkes and Teryl Birkes; four grandchildren, three great grandchildren, and three great great grandchildren. Longtime GRF Director Fay Cummings (l) poses with an array of desserts at the Leisure World's 50th anniversary celebration cake walk in June 2012. Ruth Osborn

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there and prepared tax returns ….

there and prepared tax returns ….


there and prepared tax returns for more than 1,100 clients over 55 years. She moved into Mutual 9 in 1993 and joined the GRF Board in October 1996 in a midterm appointment. In addition to serving as treasurer, she chaired the Finance Committee for nine years—from 1997-2000, 20012004 and 2005-2008. She was a member of the GRF Executive Committee every year she was on the board. Her other appointments included GRF secretary, and chair of the Security, Bus and Transportation, Recreation, and Information Technology Services committees. She was a member of the Publications, Library, Recreation, Physical Property, Resales and Medical committees. She served at a time when the board had 11 committees rather than the five it has today. She was extremely proud of the work the GRF Board accomplished during her long tenure. “We did a lot of good,” she said in a past interview. She was instrumental in bringing several important amenities to Leisure World. For example, she and former GRF President Paul Snow worked to arrange the purchase of the Leisure World Library from a bankrupt Orange County. In June 1995, GRF purchased the 4,000-square-foot branch library from Orange County for $225,000. Cummings’ negotiation skills helped to save the facility from impending closure by the county, allowing the library to become the privately operated, resident-focused resource it is today. She also worked religiously for 10 years to get North Gate built to provide residents with more access into the community. In January 2008, the North Gate officially opened on Beverly Manor Drive (now called North Gate Road). As GRF treasurer, Cummings recommended establishing the 401K program for employees, replacing the previous pre-tax retirement plan, and recommended and obtained a 4% pay raise across the board for employees. She also had fun as a board member. She was part of the planning committee for the community’s 50th anniversary celebration in 2012. She famously used a bullhorn to call the cake walk, judged the baked goods, and walked in the parade, among many other tasks in the daylong fest. She was preceded in death by her daughter, Marie Stinner. She is survived by sons Jerry Stinner, Charley Birkes and Teryl Birkes; four grandchildren, three great grandchildren, and three great great grandchildren. Longtime GRF Director Fay Cummings (l) poses with an array of desserts at the Leisure World's 50th anniversary celebration cake walk in June 2012. Ruth Osborn

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13 May 2026

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drought, water, waste water and ….

drought, water, waste water and ….


drought, water, waste water and storm water management; organic waste disposal and COVID- 19 pandemic recovery. She worked on scores of committees and boards, including OC Sanitation District, the West Orange County Water Board and OC Vector Control. When she retired from public service in 2023, the Seal Beach City Council honored her for keeping the channel between Seal Beach and Leisure World solid and secure to help residents thrive in their retirement years. Then-Mayor Thomas Moore praised Massa-Lavitt for a collaboration that led to Seal Beach police starting a traffic enforcement program in Leisure World. They also pushed to re-establish free shuttle service to the Seal Beach Pier area. This week, City Manager Patrick Gallegos said Massa-Lavitt will be remembered for “her thoughtful leadership, steady presence and deep understanding of local government. Throughout her tenure, Sandra was known as a strong advocate for her community while always keeping the broader interests of the City in focus,” he said. “On a personal note, I had the privilege of working alongside Sandra for much of my time in Seal Beach,” he continued. “She was dedicated, principled, and genuinely cared about both the community and the staff. Her guidance and presence will be deeply missed.” The May 11 Seal Beach City Council meeting was adjourned in her honor. She is survived by her husband Shefron Lavitt, son Joseph Lavitt (Michele), daughter Stefani Lavitt (Steve), adopted son Daryl King, sisters Vicki Firestone (Richard) and Betsy Johnson, two granddaughters, three nephews, four greatgrandchildren, two great nieces and a great nephew. There will be no services at her request. Sandra Massa-Lavitt (center) was honored by the Seal Beach City Council on Feb. 27, 2023, for her years of dedicated public service. She represented District 5, which encompasses Mutuals 2-9 and half of Mutual 1. Pictured are former mayor Thomas Moore (l-r), former council member Mike Varipapa, former city manager Jill Ingram, and former council members Joe Kalmick and Schelly Sustarsic. Ruth Osborn
06 May 2026

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Jean Marie Bonelli  1959-2026 ….

Jean Marie Bonelli 1959-2026 ….


Jean Marie Bonelli 1959-2026 It is with heavy hearts and profound gratitude for a life well-lived that we announce the peaceful passing of Jean Marie Bonelli, beloved wife, sister, aunt, and friend. Jean passed away on her 67th birthday, April 24, 2026. She was born on April 24, 1959, in Long Beach, California, to Carolyn E. Jackson, who predeceased her and now welcomes her into eternal rest. Jean’s journey began in Lakewood, California, where she graduated from Artesia High School in 1977. From there, she embarked on a path marked by dedication, love, and service to others. Working alongside her mother as an office manager at their family-owned printing company, her professional journey eventually led her to establish her own house cleaning service . Throughout her life, Jean remained a devoted caregiver to her mother, embodying the true spirit of selflessness and compassion. Jean’s life was a testament to her deep faith as a devoted follower of Jesus Christ. Her membership at Cottonwood Christian Fellowship in Los Alamitos was a source of faith and hope. Jean’s legacy is lovingly carried forward by her devoted husband, Micheal Crilly of 38 years, She is also survived by her siblings, Robert Bonelli and his wife, Martha; Laurie Gramento and her husband, Robert; and Michael Bonelli and his wife, Lori. Jean’s love extended to her many nieces and nephews, each of whom held a special place in her heart. A service to celebrate Jean’s life will be held on May 16, 2026 at 2 p.m. at Clubhouse 3, Leisure World, Seal Beach, California, located at 1421 Northwood Road, Seal Beach, CA 90740. Family and friends are invited to join in honoring Jean’s memory and the indelible impact she made on all our lives. Jean will be truly missed by all those who knew her and loved her. Her spirit of generosity, warmth, and unwavering faith will live on in the hearts of those she touched. As we gather to honor her life, we are reminded of the beauty she brought into the world and the love that will forever remain. —Paid Obituary
22 April 2026

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